Between the new friends, new classes, and new freedom, Uni is one of the most exciting times of your life.
But what if you’ve started university in the middle of a pandemic? Suddenly those new friends and new classes have been forced online, and you’re left relying on your internet connection to meet new people and start your university experience.
Though the pandemic presents challenges, it’s also full of opportunities. From actually attending those Zoom pub quizzes to getting along with flatmates, we’ve outlined our best tips for Sheffield Uni students to thrive in the new normal.
Embrace the Awkwardness of the Zoom ‘Pub Quiz’
Remember Zoom quizzes? A staple of most weeks in April and May, most of us never want to do another Zoom pub quiz again. However, it’s worth rolling your eyes and signing on, according to the BBC. Why? Not only are pub quizzes a great place to flaunt your obscure knowledge, they’re also a good place to meet friends virtually. According to the article, “…while meeting people on a group call can feel cringe and awkward, it’s a starting point for you to meet people who you can then strike up friendships within a more personable setting.”
So if you attend that Zoom quiz and feel like you’ve hit it off with someone, message them to see if they’re up for grabbing a cup of coffee or taking a (socially-distanced, of course) walk in one of Sheffield’s prettiest parks.
Don’t Write off Your Flatmates Just Yet
Most university students, especially first years, don’t get to decide who their flatmates are. Adding the fact that students have been specifically told not to socialise outside of their households, you’ve got a very high-stakes situation on your hands. What should you do if you and your flatmates don’t connect immediately?
This situation is particularly frustrating, especially because the only alternative is staying in your room. In the same BBC article, psychologist Dr. Fran Longstaff recommends that students give themselves time to let their flatmates grow on them. She even recommends thinking about what you want from friendships and asking yourself, “what is it you need from your friends in order to be the best version of yourself?”
And if you’re still struggling to connect? Don’t worry, according to Dr. Longstaff: “research shows it takes 50 hours to move from acquaintance to even casual friend – so be patient with yourself.”
Take a Look Around Sheffield
Sheffield is considered one of the best student cities in the UK. There are plenty of great things to do that are COVID-friendly (and budget-friendly, too). As indoor activities are still discouraged, grab a hot chocolate at Cocoa Wonderland, and then take a stroll through one of Sheffield’s 80 parks. Looking for something more unique than a walk through the city centre? The beautiful Chatsworth Gardens are always a spectacular day out, and if you can manage the bus ride or have vehicle access, the Peak District is right on your doorstep for a day of socially distanced hiking.
Need more tips? The experts at LIV Student have Sheffield’s best activities down to a science.
Use This Time to G.R.O.W.
It might sound incredibly boring, but this time is a great opportunity – just ask your mentor. In a recent article for the Chartered Management Institute, Bob Cryan CBE and vice-chancellor of the University of Huddersfield suggests keeping with the university path and remembering that this time is just one of a series of ‘blips’ you’ll experience throughout your life. Cryan suggests trying out the GROW method, which he describes below:
- Generous: Being generous and understanding with others and with yourself.
- Resilience: These times are anything but easy, so use this as an opportunity to build up your resilience. Don’t be daunted: this will help you throughout your life.
- Opportunities: Keep pushing for new opportunities, and don’t let yourself stagnate.
- Wins: Celebrate wins of all sizes, but keep pushing toward your goals.
Going to uni might look a bit different this year, but by staying open to new experiences and keeping a positive attitude, you’re sure to have one of the most memorable years of your life.
